Oklahoma Fathers Rights
What Parent Coordinators Are NOT Allowed to Do
Hi, my name is Clint Hastings. I'm an attorney in Tulsa, Oklahoma, focusing on fathers' rights. In this final video of the series on parenting coordinators, I discuss what they cannot do. Parenting coordinators are limited to making decisions within the scope of their appointment, such as resolving minor visitation disputes or communication issues. However, they cannot change custody, visitation schedules, or child support. If you encounter a parenting coordinator overstepping their authority, consult your attorney to address the issue. It's important to understand the limitations of a parenting coordinator and ensure they stay within their designated role. Visit dads.law for more information and resources. Read more »
How A Parenting Coordinator Can Help With Communication Especially Texting
In this video, attorney Clint Hastings discusses the importance of effective communication between co-parents, especially when it comes to texting. He highlights the common misunderstandings that can arise from text messages, emphasizing the need for clarity and proper grammar in written communication. Hastings recommends using a parenting app to track and monitor messages, and suggests seeking guidance from a parenting coordinator to improve communication in high-conflict cases. By providing practical tips and insights, Hastings demonstrates how addressing texting issues can lead to better co-parenting outcomes. Stay tuned for more videos in this informative series on parenting coordinators. Read more »
Can Parenting Coordinators Help Stop Frivolous Emergency Custody Motions?
In this video, attorney Clint Hastings discusses how parenting coordinators can help prevent frivolous emergency custody filings and DHS investigations. By having a parenting coordinator in your case, you can address potential emergencies quickly and effectively, potentially avoiding unnecessary legal battles and emotional distress. Clint shares real-life examples where a simple meeting with a parenting coordinator resolved issues that could have escalated to emergency motions and DHS involvement. If you're facing repeated emergency filings or DHS reports in your case, consider appointing a parenting coordinator to help manage and prevent these situations. Stay tuned for more insightful videos on parenting coordinators from Clint Hastings. Read more »
What Are The Parenting Coordinator Meetings Like?
Hi, I'm Clint Hastings, an attorney in Tulsa, Oklahoma, focusing on father's rights. In this video, I'll delve into the world of parenting coordinators. What are the meetings like? Who attends? How long are they? It all depends on the specific coordinator and the level of conflict in your case. From separate intake sessions to joint meetings, the process varies. In high-conflict cases, parties might not meet together if there's a history of abuse. Attorneys may also be involved in discussions. The goal is effectiveness, so feel free to request changes if needed. Stay tuned for more insights on parenting coordinators. Visit our site for more information. Read more »
What Does The Parenting Coordinator Tell The Courts?
In this video series, we've been diving deep into the role of parenting coordinators in family law cases. Today, let's discuss what happens when a parenting coordinator makes a report to the court. These reports are crucial in providing recommendations and outlining key issues that need to be addressed. For example, if one party is involving a third party in communication that is hindering progress, the parenting coordinator may recommend a court order prohibiting such interference. Both parties have the opportunity to object to these recommendations within a specific timeframe, and a hearing may be set to discuss the matter further. Stay tuned for more insights on parenting coordinators in our upcoming videos. Read more »
How or When You Can Remove The Parenting Coordinator from Your Case
In Tulsa, Oklahoma, I focus on father's rights and today I'm discussing the process of removing a parenting coordinator from your case. Whether it's due to bias, lack of communication, or ineffectiveness, either party can file a motion to have the coordinator removed. Proving bias can be challenging, so citing communication issues may be a more effective approach. If both parties agree, removing the coordinator is straightforward. Otherwise, a hearing may be necessary to prove good cause for removal. It's essential to address any issues with the coordinator before taking legal action. Stay tuned for more videos on parenting coordinators as we delve deeper into this topic. Read more »
How Long Is A Parenting Coordinator Appointed?
Clint Hastings, a fathers' rights attorney based in Tulsa, Oklahoma, delves into the topic of parenting coordinators in his latest video. Exploring the duration of their appointment, Clint explains how judges determine the length of a parenting coordinator's role in a case. Starting with a common timeframe of one year, parties can also agree on a shorter duration, but this may not allow sufficient time for the coordinator to be effective. Clint outlines the process for potentially extending a parenting coordinator's appointment and hints at a future video discussing how to remove them if necessary. Stay tuned for more valuable insights from Clint Hastings on navigating the complexities of family law. Read more »
What Is The Typical Cost Would be For a Parent Coordinator?
Clint Hastings, a Tulsa-based attorney specializing in fathers' rights, delves into the topic of parenting coordinators in his latest video. He breaks down the costs associated with hiring a parenting coordinator, discussing retainer fees ranging from $1,500 to $3,000 and hourly rates between $125 and $200. Hastings emphasizes the importance of establishing a solid foundation for communication and conflict resolution between co-parents through the help of a parenting coordinator. By addressing recurring issues and facilitating effective communication, the hope is to minimize the overall cost and create a smoother co-parenting experience. Stay tuned for more insights on parenting coordinators in Hastings' upcoming videos. Read more »
What Happens if One Party is Over Using The Parenting Coordinator
In this video, attorney Clint Hastings discusses the issue of overuse of Parenting Coordinators by one party in a custody case. He explains how excessive calls for meetings or advice on minor issues can result in unnecessary fees and burdens on the other party. Clint highlights the importance of the Parenting Coordinator reporting this behavior to the court and reallocating fees accordingly. This not only helps to address the frivolousness of the issues being brought up but also creates a record for the court to consider. Stay tuned for more valuable insights on Parenting Coordinators in the next video. Read more »
How The Expense For The Parenting Coordinator is Split
Hi, I'm Clint Hastings, an attorney in Tulsa, Oklahoma focusing on father's rights. Today, I'm continuing the series on parenting coordinators, discussing the allocation of expenses. Parenting coordinators typically charge $125-$175 per hour, requiring a retainer from both parties. The cost can be split 50-50 or based on income percentages. In some cases, one party may bear the full cost to expedite resolution. Orders often include provisions for excessive use penalties, discouraging bad faith actions. It's important to have this clause included in the parenting coordinator order. Stay tuned for more insights on parenting coordinators and visit our site for additional resources. Thank you. Read more »
Parenting Coordinators Role When There is Domestic Violence In The Case
In this continuing series about parenting coordinators, we're diving into the crucial topic of their role in cases involving domestic violence. Can a parenting coordinator be used when there's a protective order in place? The answer is complex, as the court must ensure that the chosen coordinator has received specific training in handling domestic violence issues. This includes understanding the danger and lethality of domestic violence, the dynamics of abuse, and the impact on victims and children. It's essential to find a coordinator with the right expertise in these situations. Stay tuned for more insights on parenting coordinators and their vital role in family law cases. Read more »
How The Parenting Coordinator Is Appointed To Your Case
In this excerpt, attorney Clint Hastings discusses the appointment of parenting coordinators in high conflict cases involving child visitation and other issues. He explains the process of how either party can make a motion to the court to appoint a parenting coordinator, or the court can appoint one if certain findings are met. High conflict cases are defined by ongoing litigation, anger, distrust, verbal or physical abuse, difficulty in communication, and other conditions. If your case fits this definition, a parenting coordinator may be appointed to help facilitate communication and decision-making. Stay tuned for more insights on parenting coordinators in the next video. Read more »
Parenting Coordinator Series Part 1: What Is A Parenting Coordinator?
Hi, I'm Clint Hastings, an attorney specializing in father's rights in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Today, we're diving into the topic of parenting coordinators. These impartial third parties, appointed by the court, help parties resolve disputes and improve communication post-divorce or paternity cases. By monitoring texts and offering recommendations, parenting coordinators can prevent arguments and create long-term solutions. While there is an additional cost, the benefits of smoother communication and reduced legal fees often outweigh the expense. In our upcoming videos, we'll explore the qualifications, costs, and process of obtaining a parenting coordinator. Stay tuned for valuable insights on this important aspect of family law. Read more »
What Documents Do I Need to File for a Divorce in Oklahoma?
By providing your attorney with these documents, you are setting yourself up for success in your case. It allows us to have a clear understanding of your financial situation and how it may impact the outcome of your case. So, if you are preparing to file for a divorce or custody case, make sure to gather these important documents to help streamline the process and ensure that your rights are protected. Remember, the more information you can provide your attorney, the better equipped they will be to fight for you and your family. Read more »
What to Do If Spouse Is Giving You Advice from Her Family and Friends?
Remember, at the end of the day, the most important thing is the well-being of your children and ensuring that you are in their lives as much as possible. Don't let outside influences cloud your judgment or affect your relationship with your spouse. Stay focused, stay positive, and always put your children first. Trust in the legal process and trust in yourself to make the best decisions for your family. It may be difficult at times, but always remember that you are capable of handling whatever comes your way. Stay strong, stay determined, and most importantly, stay present for your children. Read more »
How to Work Around Visitation with a Contentious Ex-Wife?
Navigating visitation exchanges in a contentious relationship can be challenging, but there are options to ensure a smooth process. From meeting halfway to utilizing third-party locations like police stations or convenience stores with cameras, there are ways to make exchanges safe and conflict-free. In cases of past abuse or threats, independent places of exchange may be recommended for added security. Understanding the different methods of visitation exchange can help ease tensions and protect the well-being of all involved. By implementing these strategies, visitation exchanges can be carried out seamlessly, allowing children to transition between homes with minimal stress or conflict. Read more »
How Do I Keep My Case Out of the Oklahoma Court System?
Hey guys, good afternoon. One of the things I wanted to touch base on is how to keep your case out of the court system. Men tend to be peacemakers and prefer to find resolutions rather than engage in lengthy legal battles. Mediation is a great alternative to court, with a success rate of 80-85%. By participating in mediation, you have more control over the outcome and can ensure the wellbeing of your children is taken into consideration. It's a way to shorten the time restraints of a case and reach a resolution sooner rather than later. Consider mediation as a tool to avoid unnecessary stress and uncertainty in your legal proceedings. Read more »
What Is an Automatic Temporary Injunction in Oklahoma Divorce Cases?
In this excerpt, attorney Clint Hastings discusses the automatic temporary injunction in divorce cases and advises on how to abide by it to avoid potential violations. He highlights key points such as not interfering with the other party's property or possessions, not removing insurance policies without consent, and not hiding or secreting the children. He also explains what marital funds can be used for and stresses the importance of keeping a detailed account of expenses. By following these guidelines, individuals going through a divorce can navigate the legal process more smoothly and avoid unnecessary complications. Read more »
Can I Get Kicked out of My Own Home From an Emergency Protective Order?
Hello, I'm Clint Hastings, a Tulsa attorney specializing in father's rights. One common question I hear is, How can I be kicked out of my own home with a protective order? It can be frustrating to vacate your residence based solely on allegations from a spouse or partner. You may have to wait weeks for a hearing and potentially longer if the case goes to divorce court. It's crucial to abide by the protective order, even if you believe it's unjust. Violating it can result in criminal charges. Seek specific legal advice if you're in this situation. Remember, it's important to understand your rights and options. Read more »
What Happens to My Visitation When My Kids Are on an Emergency Protective Order?
Clint Hastings, a father's rights attorney in Tulsa, Oklahoma, sheds light on the complexities of protective orders involving children. In emergency situations, judges may grant protection to the children based solely on the petitioner's allegations, leaving you without contact until a later hearing. While visitation may continue in some cases, it could be supervised or restricted. Judges often prefer to wait for a full hearing or additional input before making changes. Violating a protective order can result in criminal charges. Clint urges caution and compliance with court orders. For more insights on father's rights, visit Clint Hastings' website and share any questions or feedback. Read more »
