Attorney Clint Hastings discusses the question of whether to inform a spouse about upcoming divorce papers. Some couples openly discuss divorce before filing, making it easy to give a heads-up. However, serving papers can lead to raw emotions, making communication tricky. Warning your spouse might be beneficial, but surprising them with a process server could be an option. Serving papers in public places is generally not recommended as it can lead to bitter outcomes. These decisions are crucial, and seeking legal guidance is advisable to navigate through them effectively. If you have questions, contact the attorney’s office for a consultation.
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Clinton C. Hastings, Esq.
Clinton C. Hastings, Esq. 
In previous videos, we’ve discussed different issues regarding serving divorce paperwork to your spouse. In this video, we’ll cover the scenario where you cannot locate your spouse, despite reasonable efforts. Let’s say the process server has tried multiple times to find them. They may have done what’s called a skip trace or searched databases to locate your spouse. This situation usually comes up when the parties have been separated for quite some time. If your spouse doesn’t respond, you can request a default order in your favor. However, these default orders can sometimes be vacated if your spouse later appears in court.
Clinton C. Hastings, Esq. 
Attorney Clint Hastings explains the concept of drop service, a method used when serving legal paperwork becomes difficult. In Oklahoma, drop service is considered a reasonable means of serving the papers if done correctly. The process server must document the incident in an affidavit, ensuring that the person was aware of the dropped paperwork. Various scenarios, from dropping papers in front of someone to throwing them at a moving car, are discussed to differentiate what constitutes valid drop service. Stay tuned for more insights on serving legal documents when dealing with elusive spouses.
Clinton C. Hastings, Esq. 
What do you do if your spouse is dodging the process server? Tulsa Dads.Law attorney Clint Hastings sheds light on this common issue in divorce cases. When a spouse actively avoids being served divorce papers, it can complicate the legal process. From running out the back door to avoiding the doorbell altogether, the lengths some go to avoid service can be surprising. Learn from Clint Hastings how to handle this situation. Stay tuned for more tips on drop service in the next video.
Clinton C. Hastings, Esq. 
A Tulsa attorney specializing in fathers’ rights discusses the different ways to serve legal paperwork to a spouse, and the potential awkwardness that can arise. It could be done at work, home, or some other frequented place, with some preferring to avoid embarrassment while others don’t mind. Serving the spouse wherever they can be found is an option, even if it means an unexpected knock on the door. The process depends on the ease of serving the person, and arrangements can be made for a smooth process. Stay tuned for more advice on handling situations where the spouse is evasive or trying to avoid service.
Clinton C. Hastings, Esq. 
How will your spouse get served the divorce papers? Hi, I′m attorney Clint Hastings. I focus on father′s rights here in Tulsa, Oklahoma. And this is a question I get quite a bit, surprisingly. I′d say one out of every five to ten clients wants to know exactly how their spouse is going to be served with the paperwork. Now, this can be for several reasons, and I′m going to go into some basics here. And then we′re going to talk about actual legal requirements under the statutes of service in a couple of other follow-up videos. So, first of all, you file the divorce paperwork. We file it. We get the summons and the petition for divorce and often an application for what′s called temporary orders. And we need to get those to your spouse. How do we do it? We usually do it by a process server. You can also do it by hiring the sheriff′s office, paying a fee, and they will serve your spouse with the paperwork. However, you can do it different ways. One is by certified mail, another is by publication in a paper, if you can′t find them. And we′ll get into that in another couple of videos. But people sometimes overlook this issue, and it can be important in a volatile relationship or split, especially if one party is trying to escape domestic violence. In other words, they don′t want the paperwork to be served on the other′s spouse, and when they′re in a position where they haven′t left the home yet or there′s not some other kind of order in place protecting them from that person, such as a protective order. In the next few videos, I′m going to talk about how service is done and more about how to utilize service, what′s the best way to go about it when you have some of these issues. Thanks for watching. Look over the site. Let us know if you have similar questions, and we will try to answer those for you. Feel free to give us a phone call for a consultation any time. Thanks.
Clinton C. Hastings, Esq. 
Tulsa dads divorce attorney Clint Hastings focuses on father’s rights and explains the rules on traveling with a child after divorce. The automatic temporary injunction issued by statute prohibits hiding or secreting the child, and traveling outside the state without written consent for two weeks or more. Written consent cannot be unreasonably withheld, but violating the orders can lead to contempt actions, fines, and attorney fees. Canceling previously planned trips may be necessary if consent is withheld. It’s crucial to follow the rules set in place by statute to avoid legal complications during divorce proceedings. Contact Tulsa Dads.Law for further consultation.
Clinton C. Hastings, Esq. 
In this video, Tulsa Dads.Law attorney Clint Hastings discusses how student loans are divided in a divorce when both spouses benefited from one partner obtaining a degree. He explains the complexities of determining responsibility for student loan debt, especially in cases where the earning capacity of one spouse was increased as a result of the degree. Hastings emphasizes the importance of having clear agreements in place before divorce proceedings to avoid potential disputes over debt division. If you have questions about this topic, be sure to reach out for more information or stay tuned for a possible part three of this video series.
Clinton C. Hastings, Esq. 
In this blog post, Tulsa father’s rights attorney Clint Hastings discusses the complex issue of student loans in divorce cases. He explains that the division of student loan debt can vary depending on the circumstances of each case. Hastings points out that if the loan was used for living expenses for both parties, it may be considered marital debt and split equitably between the spouses. However, if one party took out the loan specifically for their education, the other party may not be responsible for any portion of the debt. Clint Hastings promises to delve further into this topic in his next video, offering more insights on how student loans are divided in divorce proceedings.
Clinton C. Hastings, Esq. 
Are you going through a divorce and feeling overwhelmed by the financial aspect of it all? Consider the option of lump sum negotiations. By offering a lump sum now instead of a drawn-out payment plan, you may be able to save a significant amount of money in the long run. This strategy can be applied to various aspects of divorce, such as alimony, retirement division, and property division. By providing a bird in the hand now, you may be able to secure a better deal in the present moment. If you have any questions about lump sum negotiations, feel free to reach out to me, attorney Clint Hastings, specializing in father’s rights here in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Let’s work together to find the best solution for your unique situation.
Clinton C. Hastings, Esq. 
The most important part of mediation in a custody process is the physical act of sitting down and negotiating with the other party. In many cases, mediators can help facilitate these discussions and offer suggestions based on their experience. By coming together in a neutral location, both parties can quickly address issues, make offers, and come to compromises in real time. This can save time, effort, and money compared to drawn-out negotiations through attorneys. By actively participating in mediation, you can reach agreements on important issues and avoid the need for a costly and time-consuming trial. Mediation is a valuable tool in the custody process that should not be overlooked.
Clinton C. Hastings, Esq. 
In this latest video, attorney Clint Hastings dives into the common question of whether individuals should be worried if they have been served with a subpoena. With his expertise in father’s rights law, Clint provides valuable insight into the subpoena process and how individuals should handle these legal documents. He discusses the importance of seeking legal advice if you have concerns about the information being requested and how an attorney can help navigate the situation. Clint also highlights instances where filing a motion to quash a subpoena may be appropriate. Overall, Clint’s advice is clear – don’t panic if you receive a subpoena. Just reach out for guidance and support.
Clinton C. Hastings, Esq. 
In this video, attorney Clint Hastings breaks down the costs associated with subpoenas in a legal case. The actual issuance of a subpoena may not be expensive, but the real cost comes in having it served. Using a process server or sheriff to serve the subpoena can range from $50 to $100, depending on the circumstances. Additionally, if the person being served is difficult to locate or is located far away, the cost can increase. Knowing the potential costs of subpoenas can help you budget effectively for your legal case. Stay tuned for more in-depth discussions on subpoenas in upcoming videos.
Clinton C. Hastings, Esq. 
Hi, I’m Clint Hastings, a Tulsa-based attorney focusing on fathers’ rights. Today, we’re diving into the nitty-gritty of subpoenas. Title 12, Section 2004.1 outlines key provisions on how subpoenas are issued, their required format, and proper service. Your attorney will ensure every detail is in compliance with the law, but here’s a sneak peek. Your subpoena must specify the court, case number, and where the testimony will take place. Include details like time, date, and place, and don’t forget to request any necessary records. Remember, witnesses are entitled to a fee for their time. Stay tuned for more insights on subpoenas in upcoming videos. Thank you for tuning in!
Clinton C. Hastings, Esq. 
Welcome to my blog! I’m Clint Hastings, a Tulsa-based attorney who specializes in fathers’ rights. In this video series, we’re exploring the ins and outs of subpoenas and how they play a crucial role in legal proceedings. One key point to remember is that subpoenas cannot be issued independently – you’ll need the expertise of an attorney to navigate this process smoothly. Attorneys have the advantage of issuing subpoenas without court orders, streamlining the process for obtaining vital information for your case. Stay tuned for our next video, where we’ll delve deeper into the intricacies of subpoena service. Thanks for tuning in!
Clinton C. Hastings, Esq. 
Hello, I’m Clint Hastings, an attorney in Tulsa, Oklahoma, specializing in fathers’ rights. Today, let’s delve into the topic of subpoenas. Often mentioned on TV, a subpoena is a court-issued document compelling the production of items or the appearance of a witness. Whether it’s a subpoena ad testificandum for testimony or a subpoena ducis tecum for records, understanding their purpose is essential. From accessing electronic data to inspecting premises, subpoenas play a crucial role in legal proceedings. In upcoming videos, we’ll explore the ins and outs of subpoenas, their significance, and how they can benefit your case. Stay tuned for more valuable insights.
Clinton C. Hastings, Esq. 
Hello, I’m Clint Hastings, a fathers’ rights attorney in Tulsa, Oklahoma. I want to caution you about assuming property or money is automatically yours in a divorce. Just because something was yours during the marriage doesn’t mean it will be divided that way in court. Judges consider many factors for an equitable distribution, including agreements made during the marriage and overall fairness. Violating court orders, such as the automatic temporary injunction in divorce cases, can have serious consequences. Don’t make assumptions about what is yours to take or sell. Consult with an attorney to understand your rights and obligations during divorce proceedings. Remember, it’s important to approach property division with caution and legal advice.
Clinton C. Hastings, Esq. 
Clint Hastings, a father’s rights attorney based in Tulsa, Oklahoma, advises caution when it comes to spending money received during divorce proceedings. Whether it’s a settlement, severance package, or any other lump sum payment, it’s crucial to determine if it qualifies as marital property before splurging. In a recent case, a client spent his military disability severance before realizing it may be subject to division. To avoid legal repercussions, it’s best to hold off on spending until the court makes a final decision. By seeking clarification and expert advice, individuals can navigate complex financial situations and protect their assets during divorce.
Clinton C. Hastings, Esq. 
Hi, I’m Clint Hastings, an attorney in Tulsa, Oklahoma, specializing in father’s rights. Today, I want to address a common question I receive – can a letter from a witness be used in court? The short answer is no. Using a letter would be considered hearsay since the other party should have the chance to question the witness. It’s crucial that the witness appears in court to provide live testimony, allowing for proper cross-examination. If you’re facing a legal issue related to father’s rights, don’t hesitate to reach out. Visit our website for more information or give us a call for personalized assistance. Thanks for stopping by.
Brian L. Jackson, Esq. 
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