Family Law

Hi, I’m Tulsa Dads.Law attorney Clint Hastings. Today is the second part of a video where I answered whether or not you should negotiate with your wife or mother of your child or children by yourself without an attorney. And the answer to that, my recommendation is no, do not do it. But then this answers the question, can your attorney just tell you what to say to ask your spouse or mother of your child, whether they agree to certain terms. And the answer to that is no, not exactly. So attorneys are not allowed to talk directly with opposing parties when they are represented by counsel. So if they are represented by counsel, we can’t just end run that and ignore and cut out opposing counsel by me telling the client exactly what to ask the party. So you can’t do it that way. However, if they are not yet represented. Yes, I could tell you what to say, where to go with the conversation. Now, whether or not I think you should do that, my answer is still no. It brings up all the same issues that I answered in the last video of why you should not do those negotiations by yourself. Most likely in most cases. Check out our website. I appreciate the questions along the lines of these two videos, and we’ll look for more questions that I hope I can answer in videos.

Clint Hastings, a Tulsa father’s rights attorney, advises against negotiating with the mother of your child in a paternity case without legal representation. Emotions can quickly escalate, leading to conflict and potentially damaging outcomes. While some may navigate negotiations successfully on their own, it often results in increased animosity and unresolved issues. In an upcoming video, Clint will address whether your lawyer can guide you on what to say during negotiations. For the best possible outcome and to avoid unnecessary conflict, seeking guidance from a knowledgeable attorney is recommended. Stay tuned for more insights on navigating the complexities of paternity cases.

Hi, I’m Tulsa Dads.Law attorney Clint Hastings. Guys, ask for more visitation than is in your orders or decree. Why? Because you’re entitled to it. So, in most orders, in most decrees, it lays out your minimum visitation, assuming you don’t have 50-50. Also, it will use language to the effect of other times agreed upon, or it will put a duty on the other party, the custodial parent’s duty, to facilitate additional visitation as requested or as best for the child. Sometimes you’ll see it worded in different ways, but the point is that the ordered visitation is intended to be a minimum visitation. And the other parent is expected to grant other visitations sometimes. You may have special events. You may just be missing your child more. You may be off work for some reason and have time to do more visitation. It can be a lot of reasons, but it should not be denied unreasonably. But I see parents, and dads, go years, perhaps never, asking for more than the minimum. And part of it is because they do get turned down and they give up. Well, I don’t think that’s right. Don’t give up. Sometimes you will get turned down, and sometimes it’s reasonable to. Maybe it’s short notice. There may be other plans they have made. Politely tell them that the decree lists the minimum. And if your decree does not say that and you find yourself wanting to have additional visitation quite often, you may look into modifying that. It may be worth the money to do so just to get that language in there. But don’t just give up on it. Get a record of them turning it down. And, at some point, maybe you’re seeking to modify the custody anyway. And that is a good thing to add to it that, hey, I’ve asked for this additional visit several times. It was reasonable. I had a reason for it, and she turned it down for no reason, and I have a record of it. Here are the text messages. And that may be enough to tip the scale on modification of custody on other issues. Check out our website. Give us a call for a consultation. Let us know if you have questions, and maybe we’ll make a video about your question. Thanks.

Hello, I’m Tulsa divorce attorney Clint Hastings, specializing in father’s rights. Today, let’s discuss the concept of fault in regards to damaged personal property during a marriage. Many believe that if their spouse caused damage before separation, they should be financially responsible. However, marital property is typically seen as a joint responsibility. Exceptions may apply if the damage was intentional or aimed at depriving the other party post-divorce. Remember, items broken before divorce proceedings aren’t necessarily the other party’s sole responsibility. Keep these factors in mind to avoid unnecessary disputes and expenses. Thank you for tuning in, and I look forward to our next discussion.

Are you going through a divorce and have questions about how military thrift saving plans are divided? As a father’s rights attorney in Tulsa, Oklahoma, I often assist clients with navigating the complexities of dividing assets such as retirement accounts. Military thrift saving plans can be divided like any other financial asset, but it requires a specific court order known as a Retirement Benefits Court Order (RBCO). This order must be filled out with the appropriate information and submitted to the thrift savings plan administrators. The division of these assets will be determined based on what is fair and equitable in your divorce case. If you have more questions, feel free to reach out.

Hi, I’m father’s rights attorney Clint Hastings of Tulsa, Oklahoma. Guys, you still have the right to be involved in your child’s school life, regardless of custody arrangements. Whether you have joint custody or not, you can attend meetings with teachers, request updates on your child’s progress, and access school records. Don’t be afraid to advocate for your involvement in your child’s education. Many fathers are unaware of their rights in this area, but under Oklahoma law, you are entitled to be informed and involved. Don’t let misconceptions or lack of knowledge hold you back – reach out if you need help navigating this process.

In this excerpt, Tulsa father’s rights attorney Clint Hastings discusses the challenges faced by fathers who are excluded from their child’s daycare access. He emphasizes the importance of being on the emergency contacts list and being able to pick up your child in case of an emergency, regardless of custody arrangements. While daycare facilities may enforce visitation schedules, it is ultimately up to the custodial parent to ensure that both parents are involved in their child’s life. Hastings encourages fathers to take court action if necessary and reminds them that they have rights as parents. It’s a powerful message of advocating for fathers’ rights in co-parenting situations.

Are you a grandparent seeking visitation rights with your grandchild? Find out what your options are in this informative excerpt from family attorney Clint Hastings. Learn about the legal process and statutory provisions that govern grandparent visitation and guardianship cases. Understand the difference between seeking visitation rights and pursuing guardianship when a parent is unfit. Clint’s expertise in fathers’ rights extends to helping grandparents navigate the complexities of family law. If you have questions about grandparents’ rights or any other family law issue, reach out to Clint for a personalized video consultation. Your family’s well-being is his top priority.

Hello, I’m Clint Hastings, a Tulsa father’s rights attorney. In my experience, many clients want to paint the mother of their children in a negative light, listing off all the ways she falls short as a parent. However, it’s important to take a step back and offer a more balanced perspective. While it’s easy to get caught up in emotions and portray the mother as entirely incompetent, it’s crucial to acknowledge her strengths as well. Not only does this show maturity and compassion, but it also demonstrates to the court that you are focused on what is truly best for your child. Remember, honesty and empathy go a long way in family law cases.

Hey there, I’m Clint Hastings, a father’s rights attorney in Tulsa. It’s crucial that you speak up if you don’t understand the legal jargon being thrown around in court or during discussions with your lawyer. Don’t just nod along and pretend you get it. I’ve seen too many clients struggle because they didn’t speak up when confused about custody terms, visitation rights, or other legal matters. It’s okay not to know everything, so don’t be afraid to ask for clarification. Your lawyer should be there to help you understand, so never hesitate to ask questions. Check out my website for more information and feel free to reach out for a consultation.

In today’s blog post, I want to discuss the importance of not giving up when it comes to requesting visitation with your children. As a father’s rights attorney, I often see clients who have been denied visitation for months on end. When I ask them how often they have been requesting visits, they often admit that they gave up asking after being denied a few times. It’s crucial to continue to ask for visitation, even if you know you will be denied. By documenting each request, you can prove in court that you have been actively seeking time with your children. Don’t give up hope – keep asking for visitation and seek legal advice if needed. Visit our website for more information and feel free to reach out with any questions.

Are you a dad in Tulsa facing issues with accessing your child’s medical records? Attorney Clint Hastings specializes in father’s rights and wants you to know that you do have the legal right to access those records, regardless of custody arrangements. Whether you have sole or joint custody, you have the right to know and be involved in your child’s medical care. If you’ve been shut out from this important information, don’t hesitate to take action with the help of a skilled attorney. Visit our website for more information and reach out with any questions you may have. Your child’s health and well-being are worth fighting for.

Navigating the legal process during a divorce can be overwhelming, especially when your spouse is constantly asking for attorney’s fees. As a father’s rights attorney in Tulsa, Oklahoma, I understand the concerns and frustrations that come with this situation. It’s important to remember that just because it’s in the documents, doesn’t mean she will automatically receive the fees. The court will ultimately decide on a fair outcome. It’s standard practice to include the request for attorney’s fees in motions, so try not to let it cause unnecessary stress. Make sure to discuss your options with your attorney and stay informed throughout the process. Remember, knowledge is power.

Today’s post answers the question many fathers may have when facing a contempt action for child support: Why would a father need to pay the mother’s attorney fees? Attorney Clint Hastings, based in Tulsa, Oklahoma, specializes in fathers’ rights and provides insight into this common issue. If you find yourself in a situation where you are behind on child support payments and facing a contempt action, it’s crucial to understand the potential consequences. In many cases, being found guilty of contempt can result in having to pay the mother’s attorney fees, which can range from a few hundred dollars to as much as $5,000. To navigate this process effectively, it’s essential to stay informed and work with your attorney to address any child support issues promptly.

As an attorney who specializes in father’s rights, I often get asked: What should fathers wear to court when fighting for custody? It’s important to remember that first impressions matter, especially in a legal setting. Avoid flip-flops, sandals, shorts, and tank tops at all costs. While you can get away with jeans and a t-shirt, it’s best to opt for something more professional like a blazer, sport coat, and tie. Looking presentable shows that you take the proceedings seriously and demonstrates respect for the court. Remember, it’s not just about what you wear, but how you present yourself. Stay tuned for more tips on navigating the legal system.

Attention all fathers navigating the legal system for their rights – I’m Clint Hastings, a dedicated attorney in Tulsa, Oklahoma specializing in father’s rights. In this video, I’ll be sharing some crucial tips on how to effectively prepare for a mediation. It’s essential to have a clear strategy in place, understanding your bottom line and potential compromises. Without proper preparation, you risk wasting time and money during the mediation session. Your attorney can help you identify key priorities and negotiate effectively with the other party. Don’t enter a mediation unprepared – take proactive steps to secure a favorable outcome. Visit our website for more valuable insights.