Understanding the Disneyland Dad Phenomenon
Hi, I’m Clint Hastings, a Tulsa Dads.Law attorney here in Tulsa, Oklahoma. If you find yourself only focusing on the fun aspects of parenting, such as trips and movies, you may be classified as a Disneyland Dad. This term refers to a parent who neglects day-to-day parenting duties in favor of entertainment activities with the children.
This behavior can be due to a variety of reasons, such as feeling alienated by the other parent or simply lacking experience in daily caregiving responsibilities. While it’s great to create fun memories with your kids, courts may view this behavior negatively in custody cases.
Shifting from Fun Parent to Involved Parent
If you realize you have fallen into the Disneyland Dad role, it’s not too late to make a change. Start by being intentional about your involvement in your children’s lives. Keep track of your activities with them and make an effort to participate in their daily routines.
Attend school events, doctor’s appointments, assist with homework, and engage in daily activities like cooking dinner and bedtime routines. These small moments of involvement are essential in showcasing your dedication as a parent in court.
Take Action Today
If you’re facing a custody case and want to ensure that you are presenting yourself in the best possible light as an involved parent, contact Tulsa family law attorney Clint Hastings at 918-962-0900 for a low-cost consultation. Get the guidance and support you need to navigate the complexities of custody proceedings.
