Oklahoma Fathers Rights
Can My Wife Take the Kids to Stay with Her Mother after Filing for a Divorce in Oklahoma?
When couples decide to divorce, there are often questions about temporary living arrangements, particularly regarding the children. One of the most common questions is whether one spouse—often the mother—can take the kids to stay with a relative, such as her mother, after filing for divorce. This scenario can raise concerns, especially when both parents want to maintain a close bond with the children during the divorce process. Understanding Oklahoma law regarding temporary relocations can help parents make informed decisions and protect their rights. Read more »Dividing Military Thrift Savings Plans: RBCOs Explained
Are you going through a divorce and have questions about how military thrift saving plans are divided? As a father's rights attorney in Tulsa, Oklahoma, I often assist clients with navigating the complexities of dividing assets such as retirement accounts. Military thrift saving plans can be divided like any other financial asset, but it requires a specific court order known as a Retirement Benefits Court Order (RBCO). This order must be filled out with the appropriate information and submitted to the thrift savings plan administrators. The division of these assets will be determined based on what is fair and equitable in your divorce case. If you have more questions, feel free to reach out. Read more »
Accessing School Records: Father's Rights Explained
Hi, I'm father's rights attorney Clint Hastings of Tulsa, Oklahoma. Guys, you still have the right to be involved in your child's school life, regardless of custody arrangements. Whether you have joint custody or not, you can attend meetings with teachers, request updates on your child's progress, and access school records. Don't be afraid to advocate for your involvement in your child's education. Many fathers are unaware of their rights in this area, but under Oklahoma law, you are entitled to be informed and involved. Don't let misconceptions or lack of knowledge hold you back - reach out if you need help navigating this process. Read more »
Breaking Barriers: Daycare Access for Dads
In this excerpt, Tulsa father's rights attorney Clint Hastings discusses the challenges faced by fathers who are excluded from their child's daycare access. He emphasizes the importance of being on the emergency contacts list and being able to pick up your child in case of an emergency, regardless of custody arrangements. While daycare facilities may enforce visitation schedules, it is ultimately up to the custodial parent to ensure that both parents are involved in their child's life. Hastings encourages fathers to take court action if necessary and reminds them that they have rights as parents. It's a powerful message of advocating for fathers' rights in co-parenting situations. Read more »
Grandparents’ Rights 101: Key Differences Between Visitation and Guardianship
Are you a grandparent seeking visitation rights with your grandchild? Find out what your options are in this informative excerpt from family attorney Clint Hastings. Learn about the legal process and statutory provisions that govern grandparent visitation and guardianship cases. Understand the difference between seeking visitation rights and pursuing guardianship when a parent is unfit. Clint's expertise in fathers' rights extends to helping grandparents navigate the complexities of family law. If you have questions about grandparents' rights or any other family law issue, reach out to Clint for a personalized video consultation. Your family's well-being is his top priority. Read more »
Strategic Answers to Discovery Questions: A Guide to Success
Hello, I'm Clint Hastings, a Tulsa father's rights attorney. In my experience, many clients want to paint the mother of their children in a negative light, listing off all the ways she falls short as a parent. However, it's important to take a step back and offer a more balanced perspective. While it's easy to get caught up in emotions and portray the mother as entirely incompetent, it's crucial to acknowledge her strengths as well. Not only does this show maturity and compassion, but it also demonstrates to the court that you are focused on what is truly best for your child. Remember, honesty and empathy go a long way in family law cases. Read more »
How Does Marriage Affect Your Rights as a Father in Oklahoma?
In Oklahoma, marriage automatically grants fathers specific rights that unmarried fathers may not have by default. If a child is born to a married couple, the husband is automatically presumed to be the legal father of that child. Read more »From Confusion to Clarity: Communicating Effectively with Your Lawyer
Hey there, I'm Clint Hastings, a father's rights attorney in Tulsa. It's crucial that you speak up if you don't understand the legal jargon being thrown around in court or during discussions with your lawyer. Don't just nod along and pretend you get it. I've seen too many clients struggle because they didn't speak up when confused about custody terms, visitation rights, or other legal matters. It's okay not to know everything, so don't be afraid to ask for clarification. Your lawyer should be there to help you understand, so never hesitate to ask questions. Check out my website for more information and feel free to reach out for a consultation. Read more »
Your Guide to Requesting Visitation with Confidence
In today's blog post, I want to discuss the importance of not giving up when it comes to requesting visitation with your children. As a father's rights attorney, I often see clients who have been denied visitation for months on end. When I ask them how often they have been requesting visits, they often admit that they gave up asking after being denied a few times. It's crucial to continue to ask for visitation, even if you know you will be denied. By documenting each request, you can prove in court that you have been actively seeking time with your children. Don't give up hope - keep asking for visitation and seek legal advice if needed. Visit our website for more information and feel free to reach out with any questions. Read more »
How Is Child Support Determined in Oklahoma?
Each parent's income plays a critical role in calculating child support payments. The court uses a formula that considers both incomes to determine a fair support amount.
Read more »Taking Charge: Medical Record Access for Fathers
Are you a dad in Tulsa facing issues with accessing your child's medical records? Attorney Clint Hastings specializes in father's rights and wants you to know that you do have the legal right to access those records, regardless of custody arrangements. Whether you have sole or joint custody, you have the right to know and be involved in your child's medical care. If you've been shut out from this important information, don't hesitate to take action with the help of a skilled attorney. Visit our website for more information and reach out with any questions you may have. Your child's health and well-being are worth fighting for. Read more »
What Is Strategic Mediation in Oklahoma?
Mediation is a valuable alternative to court proceedings, particularly in family law cases. It offers a way for both parties to reach agreements without the stress and expense of going to court. But, as any attorney would advise, a successful mediation requires a well-thought-out strategy. In Oklahoma, strategic mediation has become especially popular, offering parents […] Read more »Maximize Divorce Settlement: Lump Sum Strategies for Success
Are you going through a divorce and feeling overwhelmed by the financial aspect of it all? Consider the option of lump sum negotiations. By offering a lump sum now instead of a drawn-out payment plan, you may be able to save a significant amount of money in the long run. This strategy can be applied to various aspects of divorce, such as alimony, retirement division, and property division. By providing a bird in the hand now, you may be able to secure a better deal in the present moment. If you have any questions about lump sum negotiations, feel free to reach out to me, attorney Clint Hastings, specializing in father's rights here in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Let's work together to find the best solution for your unique situation. Read more »
Oklahoma Child Support vs. Alimony: Breaking It Down
Child support and spousal support are two different things in Oklahoma. Child support is based on a calculation using the parties' incomes to support the children, while spousal support is to help a spouse become self-supportive after a divorce. It's important to understand the differences and ask your attorney for clarification. As a father's rights attorney in Tulsa, I often see confusion about these terms. Rest assured, I'm here to help navigate through the legal maze and ensure your rights are protected. Feel free to reach out with any questions, and stay tuned for more helpful videos on this topic. Read more »
Preparing for Custody Evaluations: Key Insights
Are you facing a custody evaluation in your case? Attorney Clint Hastings breaks down what it means and how the process works. While not all cases require custody evaluators, having one can provide a more in-depth evaluation and expert presentation to a judge. This expert is trained in psychology and follows standards set by professionals in the field. However, be prepared to pay a fee, which can range from several thousand dollars depending on the complexity of your situation. Ultimately, discussing your specific needs with an attorney can help determine if investing in a custody evaluator is necessary for your case. Read more »
The Power of Mediation: Key Role in Custody Disputes
The most important part of mediation in a custody process is the physical act of sitting down and negotiating with the other party. In many cases, mediators can help facilitate these discussions and offer suggestions based on their experience. By coming together in a neutral location, both parties can quickly address issues, make offers, and come to compromises in real time. This can save time, effort, and money compared to drawn-out negotiations through attorneys. By actively participating in mediation, you can reach agreements on important issues and avoid the need for a costly and time-consuming trial. Mediation is a valuable tool in the custody process that should not be overlooked. Read more »
Understanding the Right of First Refusal: Essential Co-Parenting Tips
If you're facing a custody battle and wondering why your ex gets to drop off the kids with her mom for extended periods of time, attorney Clint Hastings has some advice for you. In these situations, it's important to establish a right of first refusal, which gives you the option to take the kids instead of them going to a third party. This rule should go both ways, allowing you to have the kids during her time as well. Remember, the key is to be fair and reasonable in negotiations, and if needed, bring the issue before a judge for resolution. Stay informed and advocate for your rights as a father. Read more »
Alimony in Oklahoma: Cheating Spouse Exceptions Explained
Hi, I'm attorney Clint Hastings, a dedicated father's rights advocate based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Today, I want to address a common concern among my clients - why should I have to pay alimony to my ex-wife who cheated on me? In Oklahoma, we operate under no-fault divorce laws, which means infidelity or fault in the marriage won't directly impact alimony decisions. However, if your ex spent marital funds on her affair, the court may consider this in the alimony settlement. It's a complex issue, but I'm here to help guide you through it. Stay tuned for more legal insights, and feel free to reach out with any questions you may have. Thank you for watching. Read more »
Navigating Attorney's Fees in Divorce: What to Expect
Navigating the legal process during a divorce can be overwhelming, especially when your spouse is constantly asking for attorney's fees. As a father's rights attorney in Tulsa, Oklahoma, I understand the concerns and frustrations that come with this situation. It's important to remember that just because it's in the documents, doesn't mean she will automatically receive the fees. The court will ultimately decide on a fair outcome. It's standard practice to include the request for attorney's fees in motions, so try not to let it cause unnecessary stress. Make sure to discuss your options with your attorney and stay informed throughout the process. Remember, knowledge is power. Read more »
The Cost of Contempt: Child Support & Attorney Fees
Today's post answers the question many fathers may have when facing a contempt action for child support: Why would a father need to pay the mother's attorney fees? Attorney Clint Hastings, based in Tulsa, Oklahoma, specializes in fathers' rights and provides insight into this common issue. If you find yourself in a situation where you are behind on child support payments and facing a contempt action, it's crucial to understand the potential consequences. In many cases, being found guilty of contempt can result in having to pay the mother's attorney fees, which can range from a few hundred dollars to as much as $5,000. To navigate this process effectively, it's essential to stay informed and work with your attorney to address any child support issues promptly. Read more »
