Oklahoma Fathers Rights
Can I Get Kicked out of My Own Home From an Emergency Protective Order?
Hello, I'm Clint Hastings, a Tulsa attorney specializing in father's rights. One common question I hear is, How can I be kicked out of my own home with a protective order? It can be frustrating to vacate your residence based solely on allegations from a spouse or partner. You may have to wait weeks for a hearing and potentially longer if the case goes to divorce court. It's crucial to abide by the protective order, even if you believe it's unjust. Violating it can result in criminal charges. Seek specific legal advice if you're in this situation. Remember, it's important to understand your rights and options. Read more »
What Happens to My Visitation When My Kids Are on an Emergency Protective Order?
Clint Hastings, a father's rights attorney in Tulsa, Oklahoma, sheds light on the complexities of protective orders involving children. In emergency situations, judges may grant protection to the children based solely on the petitioner's allegations, leaving you without contact until a later hearing. While visitation may continue in some cases, it could be supervised or restricted. Judges often prefer to wait for a full hearing or additional input before making changes. Violating a protective order can result in criminal charges. Clint urges caution and compliance with court orders. For more insights on father's rights, visit Clint Hastings' website and share any questions or feedback. Read more »
How Did My Girlfriend Get My Dog in the Emergency Protective Order?
In this excerpt, attorney Clint Hastings discusses the issue of protective orders and pets in father's rights cases. He explains that it is not uncommon for a protective order to include provisions regarding pets, and that these provisions can sometimes lead to a lengthy process of hearings and court appearances. Clint advises that it is important to seek legal representation in these situations to ensure that your rights are protected and that you have the best chance of retaining custody of your pet. If you find yourself in this situation, it is crucial to act quickly and seek the assistance of an experienced attorney to navigate the legal process effectively. Read more »
Can People with a Protective Order against Them Still Possess Firearms in Oklahoma?
In this blog post, Tulsa father's rights attorney Brian L. Jackson discusses the implications of having a protective order (PO) against you in Oklahoma. He highlights the recent Supreme Court case involving the provision under federal law, known as the Violence Against Women Act (VAWA), which prohibits individuals with a final protective order from possessing or purchasing firearms. Jackson points out that the consequences of POs are more serious than misdemeanors in Oklahoma, as they can affect custody disputes and limit visitation rights. He emphasizes the importance of taking protective orders seriously and seeking legal representation. Read more »
What If I Have a Special Event for My Child During Mom's Visitation and She Won't Let Me Take Them?
Navigating special events during custody disputes can be tricky, especially when the other parent is not willing to cooperate. Attorney Clint Hastings shares some tips on how to handle situations where you have a special event planned for your child during the other parent's visitation time. From communicating well in advance to considering the help of a parenting coordinator, there are options to explore. It's important to address these issues early on and try to be flexible, keeping in mind that cooperation from both parents will make future situations easier to navigate. For more information and an affordable consultation, contact Clint Hastings today. Read more »
Does an Inherited House Count as Marital Property in Oklahoma?
Inheritances can be a tricky subject when it comes to divorce and division of assets. While inheritances are typically considered separate property, there are situations where they can become co-mingled with marital property and subject to division by the court. For example, if you inherit a house and use it as the marital home, contribute joint marital funds to the mortgage and upkeep, and fail to clearly document your intention for it to remain separate property, it could be deemed marital property. It's important to carefully track and document any transactions involving inheritances to protect your assets in the event of divorce. If you have questions or need assistance navigating this complex issue, don't hesitate to reach out. Read more »
Does Inheritance From My Parents or Relatives Count as Marital Property in Oklahoma?
Welcome to my blog! I'm Clint Hastings, a father's rights attorney based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Today, let's dive into the complex world of gifts and inheritances during marriage. What happens to these assets in the event of a divorce? The answer isn't always straightforward. Factors like commingling, refinancing, and shared contributions can impact whether the property remains separate or becomes marital. It's crucial to seek guidance from a legal expert to protect your interests. Feel free to explore my site for more insights, and don't hesitate to reach out with any questions. Together, we can navigate the nuances of family law. Thanks for reading! Read more »
Does My Wife Get to Keep the Wedding Ring After a Divorce in Oklahoma?
Hi, my name is Clint Hastings, an attorney in Tulsa, Oklahoma, focusing on father's rights. Today, I'll answer a common question: does your wife get to keep the wedding ring and do you get credit for its value? Unfortunately, she keeps the ring as a gift, not part of the marital estate. If she gives you a gift, like a watch, it's your separate property. No magic words needed, but clarity helps. Testify honestly about the circumstances. If unsure, court credibility matters. Hopefully, honesty prevails. Have more questions? Visit the site and let me know. I'm here to help. Thank you. Read more »
Storytime: Don't Sabotage Your Case: 7 Divorce No-Nos
Hi, my name is Clint Hastings, an attorney in Tulsa, Oklahoma, focusing on fathers' rights. Today, I want to share some cautionary tales from my cases. One client pretended to be a priest to trick his soon-to-be ex-wife, leading to a messy court battle. Others resorted to illegal tactics like GPS tracking or stalking. These actions can harm your custody case and reputation. Seek professional help if struggling with divorce emotions, but never resort to such extreme measures. Your behavior in court matters. Avoid these pitfalls, stay composed, and seek legal guidance. Let's work together to navigate your case successfully. Remember, don't make these mistakes. Read more »
Who Gets the House During a Divorce in Oklahoma?
Hi, my name is Clint Hastings. I'm an attorney in Tulsa, Oklahoma, focusing on dad's rights. Today, I want to talk about the importance of not getting into a standoff over the family home during a divorce. It's common for one party to hold onto the house out of emotional attachment, hoping for reconciliation. However, this can lead to financial strain and loss of equity. It's crucial to discuss with your attorney early on about the possibility of selling the home and splitting the equity. Don't wait until it's too late and you're losing more money than necessary. Make a plan and seek professional advice to navigate this process smoothly. Read more »
How To Minimize Support Alimony Payments in Oklahoma
Hi, my name is Clint Hastings. I'm an attorney here in Tulsa, Oklahoma, and I focus on dad's rights. In a previous video, I talked about what support alimony is and what it isn't. Right now, I'm going to talk to you about how to minimize what you may have to pay in support alimony. Now, as we talked about before, it boils down to basically your wife's need and your ability to pay for her to get back on her feet and cover her basic living expenses, and maybe have to contribute to some schooling or trade school or something to help her get back to earning money for herself if she hasn't during the marriage. So let's say you're at the point where we pretty much determined that you're going to have to pay some. How do we bring that number down? Well, it takes skill and experience from your lawyer to do that. One thing I do is get a full background of your wife's training, schooling, past jobs, or even her hobbies to build a case of why and how she could make money for herself. You're going to get her on the stand. You're going to go through that history. Ma'am, you know how to cut hair, don't you? In fact, you're good at makeup. You could do makeup and hair for a living. And couldn't you make a lot? Go into a big salon. Sometimes that type of questioning reveals a lot, and you can get your wife to admit a lot on the stand. Now, secondly, you're going to go through her bank records and all the expenses she says she needs, and again, you get her on the stand. Ma'am, you don't need a 3,000 square foot apartment, do you? You don't need a $70,000 car to drive, do you? You don't need to get your toenails done every month, do you? A lot of questioning along that lines and comparing to the bank records of what she's spending money on is very effective. Quite often, during a divorce, you can actually find a lot of cases where one or both parties are spending a lot of money on alcohol and eating out. That all comes into play. It could hurt you if you're asked about your ability to pay. The other attorney could say, well, sir, you don't need to be spending $1,000 a month on food and alcohol, right? As you can see, that's not going to fly well with the judge when you're trying to say you can't afford $1,000 a month to pay your wife out money. So, you need to talk about this issue up front, very early on in your case with your attorney. And you need to start limiting your expenses on miscellaneous stuff, but you do need to go ahead and keep your expenses on reasonable things. A lot of times, all of a sudden, a divorce happens, your life is in flux, and all of a sudden you stop paying for reasonable hobbies and reasonable things that you normally would. And all of a sudden, you're widening the amount that you have as disposable income that the judge may say could be contributed to your wife for out money. So, it takes a lot of preparation. As I've said in a previous video, it's very hard to determine alimony right off the bat because there is no specific formula. It's all based on the arguments you make and the case you present. I hope this helps. Check out our site, let me know if you have any questions, and I'll try to get back with you. Thanks. Read more »
What Is Support Alimony in Oklahoma?
Hi, I'm Clint Hastings, an attorney in Tulsa, Oklahoma, focusing on dad's rights. Today, let's dive into support alimony. Alimony can be a confusing topic, with different types like alimony in lieu of property division and support alimony. It all comes down to your spouse's need and your ability to pay. Support alimony is meant to assist your ex-spouse in getting back on their feet post-divorce. There's no set formula for calculating alimony, making it a complex issue that can require mediation or court intervention. If you have questions or need guidance on alimony, feel free to reach out. Let's navigate this together. Read more »
Can I Alter My Life Insurance Policies During a Divorce?
Welcome to my blog where I focus on father's rights in divorce cases. Today, I want to address a common question I receive - can you alter or access your life insurance policies during a divorce? The answer is no. Due to an automatic temporary injunction issued by the court clerk upon filing for divorce, you are prohibited from making any changes to your life insurance policies or accessing funds from them without a judge's permission. This is done to ensure fair distribution of assets. Stay tuned for more tips on navigating divorce proceedings. Feel free to reach out with any questions. Thank you for reading. Read more »
Are Child Support and Visitation Tied Together in Oklahoma?
Clint Hastings, a dedicated attorney in Tulsa, Oklahoma, specializes in advocating for dad's rights. In a recent blog post, he emphasizes the importance of understanding that child support and visitation are separate issues, not dependent on each other. If your ex-spouse is withholding visitation due to missed child support payments, it's crucial to address the situation legally rather than retaliating by withholding payments yourself. By seeking legal recourse and filing contempt charges, you can ensure that visitation rights are upheld without risking legal consequences for failing to meet child support obligations. Don't hesitate to reach out to Clint for further guidance on navigating complex family law matters. Read more »
Do I Have to Keep Paying for My Ex's Car If We Are Filing for a Divorce?
Clint Hastings, a father's rights attorney in Tulsa, Oklahoma, discusses the question of whether a husband must continue paying for his wife's car after a divorce has been filed. While there is no specific order in the Automatic Temporary Injunction requiring continued payments, it's important to handle the situation carefully to avoid negative repercussions from the judge. Communication with your ex-spouse and legal representation can help navigate this issue and reach a fair resolution. Acting impulsively or vindictively can harm your case in court. It's crucial to approach financial matters with caution and seek guidance from professionals to protect your rights during this emotional time. Read more »
What to Do If My Child Is In Danger While Being With Their Mother?
Hi, I'm Clint Hastings, an attorney in Tulsa focusing on father's rights. If you suspect your child is in danger with their mother, it's crucial to act swiftly but thoughtfully. Consider whether the situation poses irreparable harm, such as physical or emotional abuse. Consult with an attorney to evaluate the evidence and determine the best course of action. Emergency motions should be used judiciously, as judges receive many frivolous claims. If immediate action is necessary, contact authorities. Remember, your child's safety is paramount. Take the time to gather evidence and follow proper procedures to protect your child effectively. Don't hesitate to reach out for help. Read more »
Can I Use Money From My Life Insurance Policy to Pay for Expenses After Filing for Divorce?
Are you going through a divorce and wondering if you can use money from your life insurance policy to cover expenses? Attorney Clint Hastings explains that under the automatic temporary injunction in every divorce case, you are prohibited from touching the cash surrender value of a life insurance policy. This means you cannot borrow from it or change beneficiaries. The same applies to other insurance policies like automobile, house, and health insurance. Violating these provisions can result in being found in contempt and facing penalties and fines. Remember to review the injunction carefully and consult with a knowledgeable attorney for guidance. Read more »
Can I Pay My Attorney With Joint Marital Funds in Oklahoma?
Clint Hastings, a father's rights attorney based in Tulsa, Oklahoma, addresses a common concern about using marital funds to pay for legal representation during divorce proceedings. He explains that while there are restrictions on how marital assets can be used once a divorce is filed, obtaining legal counsel is a permissible exception. The automatic temporary injunction issued by the court allows for the use of marital funds to retain an attorney, with the requirement that the spending be documented and accounted for. By providing clarity on this issue, Clint aims to empower his clients and ensure they understand their rights and options during a challenging time. Read more »
What Is an Automatic Temporary Injunction in Oklahoma Divorce Cases?
I'm Clint Hastings, a father's rights attorney in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Let's discuss the automatic temporary injunction in divorce cases. It's crucial to follow this statutory order to avoid legal troubles. You can't disturb the other party's peace, interfere with their property, or hide assets. Don't mess with insurance policies, utilities, or the children's whereabouts. However, you can use marital funds for attorney fees and necessities. Remember, you can't unilaterally waive the injunction. Consult with a lawyer to navigate these complexities. Stay informed, follow the rules, and protect your rights during this challenging time. Visit our site for more helpful tips. Read more »
What Is a GAL (Guardian Ad Litem) in Oklahoma?
Hello, I'm Clint Hastings, a father's rights attorney in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Today, let's talk about guardian ad litems (GALs) and whether they can benefit your case. GALs represent your children's best interests in court, but their neutrality can be a double-edged sword. They may recommend in your favor or against you, impacting your case outcome. Costs vary based on case complexity, with fees for interviews, home visits, and more. The judge decides who pays, often the financially able party or split. Reallocation happens post-case. Consult your attorney for personalized advice. Learn more at Dads.Law or contact us for a consultation. Read more »
